You can measure men’s IQ vs women’s IQ, and see how they have different distributions (there are more outliers in men, on both ends).
But if you measured a healthy couple’s combined IQ, it would be greater than the sum of its parts
TODO: something about the failure to integrate is making us dumber, we don’t see it because we’re not looking at combined IQ’s of egregores. A couple is an egregore unit